
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.
Ask Anna is a sex column. Because of the nature of the topic, some columns contain language some readers may find graphic. I've been dating this guy who has a very long penis.

In fact, almost 30 percent of women experience pain during sex medically called dyspareuniabut many are too embarrassed to report it to a doctor—opting instead to either resign themselves to the hurt or to a sexless existence. The good news? There are other better options for coping with painful sex.
There are many drawbacks to our obsession with penis size. One of them is that the very real problems experienced by men with big penises -- and by their partners -- are often minimized. I don't know if you've spoken with friends about the situation but I know people who have been in your position, and all their friends say are things like "I should be so lucky" and "You shouldn't complain! It would be helpful for you to start by thinking through whether it's the length or width or both that is making sex uncomfortable or painful for you.
When you're all tangled up in bed with your partner, there's undoubtedly going to be some discomfort and interesting sensations. And yet, nothing should hurt. Unless, of course, that's your thing.


I am a year-old girl, and I want to know why it hurts so much when my boyfriend and I have sex? Sex hurts? How unsettling!
Does anyone know what if this is normal or not? When i have sex its fine but if they push too hard or especially too deep inside me it really really hurts! Fancy yourself as an agony aunt?
Missionary is a sexual staple for a reason: pretty easy access to PIV sex, it's ideal for kissing, and gives you superbly simple access to butt-grabbing. Is it the best position? Of course not. It's tough to get enough clitoral stimulation, it's easy to become a giant sweat napkin if your guy sweats a lot, and your hair is bound to get trampled.
Pain during sex, or dyspareunia, can cause problems in a couple's sexual relationship. Painful intercourse can have negative emotional effects in addition to the physical pain. There are many effective treatment options available so patients should discuss their symptoms with a physician.
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